I wasn’t going to put up another repost today, but I just realized that I never got around to reposting my review of the late actress, Charlotte Rae’s, book about her life. And since I’ve been binge watching The Facts of Life, I figure now is a good time to repost this review, dated December 15, 2015.
Having grown up in the 70s and 80s, I watched a lot of TV. One of my favorite shows was Diff’rent Strokes. I also loved The Facts of Life. Both shows starred Charlotte Rae as Mrs. Edna Garrett, a maternal, wise, loving woman who first served as a live in housekeeper, then became the cook/dietician/house mother at Eastland School for Girls.
What I didn’t know was that Charlotte Rae’s career encompassed so much more than just 80s era sitcoms. I learned much more about her life when I read her book, The Facts of My Life, which she co-wrote with her son, Larry Strauss.
Charlotte Rae Lubotsky was born the middle of three daughters to Russian Jewish parents. She grew up in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. Born in 1926, Charlotte Rae was around to see the Great Depression and watch her parents and everyone else around her struggle to make ends meet. Nevertheless, Rae and her sisters were musically talented and felt a pull toward show business. After studying at Northwestern University among several other future stars, Rae moved to New York City and became active in the theater.
Having married John Strauss, Rae bore two sons. Her older son, Andy, was severely autistic and spent most of his life institutionalized. After a lifetime of health struggles, Andy passed away in 1999. Her younger son, Larry, is a writer and teacher. Rae writes about what it was like to work in the theater and later, Hollywood. She and her husband battled alcoholism and later, Rae dealt with the fact that her husband preferred the company of males. They managed to stay friends after their divorce.
Rae writes quite a lot about her family of origin and her career. Her attitude is upbeat, even as she describes having to deal with sibling rivalry with her older sister, Beverly, who was an opera diva. Younger sister, Mimi, was a great pianist. Rae describes her voice as “bluesy”, which is kind of hard for me to imagine, having seen her be Mrs. Garrett for so many years. Apparently, she is quite an accomplished singer, besides a great actress.
Sister Beverly Ann became an opera singer, then married a wealthy doctor and became a socialite. Sadly, she succumbed to pancreatic cancer. Pancreatic cancer has since become a cause near and dear to Rae’s heart.
I never knew that Charlotte Rae struggled with alcoholism. Apparently, she’s been sober for about forty years. She praises Alcoholics Anonymous and her AA buddies for helping her stay ahead of her addiction to booze. I also didn’t know that Rae was Jewish. She shares some interesting anecdotes about what it was life to grow up Jewish in the United States.
Parts of this book were very witty. Other parts were kind of sad. Those who are looking for anecdotes about Diff’rent Strokes or The Facts of Life may come away somewhat disappointed; after all, this book is not just about those two shows, even if they did make her much more visible to the world. But what she does share is enlightening and heartwarming. We are reminded that Mrs. Garrett and Charlotte Rae are two different entities, as are the people who portrayed the characters with whom Rae starred.
I think this book will appeal most to people like me, who have enjoyed Charlotte Rae’s talents. As celebrity life stories go, it’s pretty interesting. I’d give it four stars.
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