The featured photo was included with a Tweet about the basic reasons people feel the need to be “pro-life”, and force other people to gestate.The person who inspired today’s post responded to the photo. Evidently, she’s a forced birther who falsely believes that if I block her, I automatically “lose”…
Happy Thursday, y’all. It’s already 9:20 in the morning. I’m getting a late start, because I’ve been updating book review posts. I think I’ve managed to fix most of the book reviews on this site, and I’ve done a few on the travel blog. There’s still more to do, but it’s less of a priority now. I’m just glad I didn’t repost ALL of the Epinions reviews I wrote, back in the day. I’d probably be busy updating Amazon links for the rest of the year. Keep in mind, it’s still January!
I’ve also done a load of laundry, picked up Noyzi’s poop, put away the snow shovel, and am in the process of washing Noyzi’s bedding. I decided to do that after noticing that he was a bit stinky/funky. Noyzi probably needs a bath, too, but it’s Thursday, so that means it’s vacuum day. And y’all know how much I “love” to vacuum… NOT.
I heard about the singer, Melanie Safka’s, death on January 24th. She was 76 years old. I like her music a lot. She was a talented lady, who was a fixture at Woodstock, which predates my existence. At this point, no one has posted about why Melanie died… but wherever she is, I hope it’s a much better place than the hellhole that is Planet Earth in 2024. Maybe I’ll try a Melanie song today, after I walk Noyzi.
So… about today’s title. Once again, I find myself drawing inspiration from the Web site formerly known as Twitter. It’s like a car wreck that I can’t turn away from, as I read so many posts from people who want to tell women what to do. What is especially sad to me are posts from women who have become misogynists. Yes… they are cheering on the extreme bans on abortion and meddling in other family planning issues that don’t affect them personally.
I get especially pissed off when I see that so many of these female folks are beyond the age of childbearing, and they had all of the rights that they would like to take away from the younger generations. No, abortion bans don’t really affect me personally today, but the issue of healthcare privacy does. And folks, if you don’t think this is a slippery slope into right wing goons prying into your medical care privacy, I’ve got a bridge to sell you in Brooklyn.
Some of the people who post on Twitter are so obviously offensive that I block them, even if I’ve never interacted with them. I don’t consider that an unfair thing to do. I’m not obligated to read other people’s hateful screeds on social media. I don’t have to engage with people who have no sense of basic decency or decorum. Just like pregnancy– and the right not to be pregnant if I don’t want to be– I don’t have to have a discussion on Twitter with anyone who annoys me for ANY reason.
I find myself blocking people a lot more easily on Twitter than I do on Facebook. I think it’s because Twitter is more anonymous than Facebook is, and people there seem to be more full of rage and hatred. The regular news is upsetting enough to me, without my having to read a bunch of garbage from people I don’t know or care about. So yeah, I’m gonna block with wild abandon if I wanna. That doesn’t make me a “loser”. In fact, I think blocking idiots makes me every inch a winner! The secret to winning, as you know, is not playing the game in the first fucking place!
Imagine, then, my amusement when I came across this profile on Twitter this morning…
First off, I didn’t realize Twitter was a game. I mean, yes, people get into ridiculous arguments on Twitter, and I guess that could be considered a “battle” or a “game” of sorts. But I block a lot of people. Many of the people I block are folks I’ve never, personally, so much as traded a single insult with on Twitter. If I read some misogynistic crap on my timeline that they’ve posted to someone else I follow, I’m gonna block that shit. That doesn’t mean they’ve “won”. It means that they’re so gross that I don’t want to give them a chance to be more offensive to me. I get offended enough just by living, thanks.
And secondly, we all have only so many days of life on Earth. If I decide I don’t want to waste more of my life conversing with someone I find obnoxious, it’s my right to hit the block button. You can think you “won” if I block you, but that doesn’t make it true. Same thing applies to the concept of abortion as “murder”. Abortion isn’t murder, as murder is a legal term. Just because someone doesn’t approve of elective abortions, that doesn’t mean it’s murder.
I do think, however, that if you post “You block= I win” on your profile, it kind of says something about you. Why would anyone feel the need to put that on their profile, unless they really don’t want to be blocked? Like… why would you even care if a “Twitter loser” blocks you? There is an endless supply of people lurking on Twitter who are all too eager to argue, fight, and compare swords with people they don’t even know. If, for whatever reason, someone blocks you, what difference does it make? Especially if you are total strangers?
For the record, I haven’t yet blocked TheOrangeVixen on Twitter. However, I have a feeling I might want to… I mean, just reading her comment below, makes my blocking fingers itchy…
TheOrangeVixen was responding to the below comment, made by AbortionRights. For the record, I agree with AbortionRights that there is a certain segment of the population who get a “rise” out of the idea of forcing other people to do their bidding, no matter the consequences.
Bzzt. Category 3. Dominance Fetish. It obviously gets you horny just imagining you’re important enough to “lay down the law” for the rest of the world.
And here’s more of the same… For God’s sake, learn how to spell “consequences”! But also, stop being so utterly repugnant in your attitudes toward other people. ICCCCCKKKK!
I finally had to make a comment… and then I did, in fact, block TheOrangeVixen, because I can tell arguing with her would be a huge waste of my time and drain of my precious energy. And I don’t want to “lose” the time or energy… just so she doesn’t think I’m a “loser” for not wasting my time arguing with her, and being annoyed by her terrible spelling.
Of course, the fact that I’m even writing this post this morning might be a big clue that I actually am a loser. I think I’m going to get on with the day, so I don’t become even more of a loss. I’d really like to finish my latest book, so I can review it and move on to a new one. And I’d also like to try to make a music video today, just because making music makes me feel better about the world. I realize most people don’t care if I accomplish anything at all. It does still matter to me, though, if I get anything of consequence done today. So, I’m going to close this post now, and do something else constructive with my precious time.
Have a great Thursday, y’all… and don’t be afraid to block anyone you choose. You’re not a loser if you do so. Take it from me! How do I know that? Because I am The Overeducated Housewife, dammit, and I said so! (See? I’ve got a little dominance fetish going on, myself… tee hee hee.)
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