This post was originally written on December 5, 2017. I am reposting a slightly edited version of it because it’s about a fun subject that has nothing to do with current events.
Back in the 1980s, when cable television was still fairly new, we had some very interesting programs to watch. The mid 80s saw the birth of the now female friendly network called Lifetime. Many people recognize Lifetime as a channel for women with lots of women centric television shows and movies about bad men. But if you were around in the mid 80s, you might remember that Lifetime used to be a health channel.
February 1, 1984 marked the first day of Lifetime TV. Prior to that, it was known first as Daytime, which was a channel dedicated to “alternative” women’s programming. Then, for about nine months, it was called Cable Health Network. Then, in November 1983, it was Lifetime Medical Television. I remember the programming aired on that network was mostly medical stuff… I mean, stuff doctors would be watching. I remember the channel’s logo featured an apple… an apple a day keeps the viewers away, I guess.
Something had to be done… the new network was losing a lot of money. Some people even thought it was a religious channel. That’s when Lifetime started its incarnation of what it is today. It was around 1985 that it started featuring Dr. Ruth Westheimer, the tiny German sex therapist who hosted a call in sex advice show on Lifetime. Her show was called Good Sex! With Dr. Ruth Westheimer. In the 80s, it was cutting edge stuff… scandalous, even. The tiny woman soon became a huge star.
I don’t know why, but for some reason, I thought of Dr. Ruth last night. It was right before I read a nauseating story about Kirk Cameron, also an 80s icon who underwent a massive makeover (and in his case, not for the better). Kirk made a statement about how wives are to honor their husbands…
“Wives are to honor and respect and follow their husband’s lead, not to tell their husband how he ought to be a better husband. When each person gets their part right, regardless of how their spouse is treating them, there is hope for real change in their marriage.”
I made the mistake of sharing the story and immediately got a comment from someone wanting me to know about the Bible verse from which this directive comes. For the record, yes I know that the Bible says women should follow their husbands the way their husbands follow the church. However, I think many “Christian” men misunderstand or misuse this passage and end up abusing their wives.
I’m not so sure Cameron or others like him do a good job of explaining it. Moreover, my initial comment was more about how Kirk Cameron changed from a goofy, boyish, funny, likable guy to a religious zealot. He probably could use some advice from Dr. Ruth.
I didn’t watch Dr. Ruth’s show because it aired at 10:00pm and I was about 12 or 13 years old. Although my parents probably would neither have noticed nor cared that I was watching her program, at that age I found it boring viewing. Most talk shows that would probably fascinate me today were dull when I was much younger. I couldn’t be bothered to sit and listen to anyone who wasn’t a musician. However, she did become very famous when her show was on Lifetime. I think she and Regis Philbin helped put the then fledgeling cable channel on the map.
For some reason, I used to love to imitate Dr. Ruth’s voice. It’s so distinctive.
Dr. Ruth was born in 1928, which makes her quite elderly. She still has a channel on YouTube and, if she’s the one who is actually running it, appears to have a pretty good sense of humor. I notice she favorited one of Robin Williams’ routines about her.
Anyway, I can’t help but miss the good old days sometimes. Sure, the Internet is great and television has even become somewhat obsolete. But I do miss some of the stuff that made it on the airwaves back in the day. Lifetime and other cable channels like Nickelodeon used to be fun to watch. Then they kind of evolved into crap… but then, that’s kind of the way of the world. Radio used to be cool, too.