Here are two posts that originally appeared on the Blogspot version of this blog. I wrote the first one, not knowing anything more about the case than what little was in the paper. One of Ragin’s relatives sent me a private message. She was initially upset about my comments, but then told me more about what had actually happened and asked me to write more. So I did… and I am including the second post with the first. As usual, these posts are mostly unedited and appear “as/is” from 2014.
This is a truly tragic story…
I like to read The Daily Press sometimes. It’s the newspaper I grew up with and I used to read the paper version of it every day when I was growing up. Today, I check it a few times a week to see if anything interesting is going on in the area where I grew up. Today, there was a very sad story about a woman who made a very poor choice in husbands. Now she and three of her four children are dead.
Fort Eustis Army Sergeant Crystal Ragin was an exemplary soldier who was going to go to school to become a drill sergeant. She was well-known for being very good at her job, responsible, punctual, and very hard working. A mother of four, she had been married to her second husband, John Moses Ragin, since 2006. They met in South Carolina, when Crystal was a guard at the prison where John Ragin was serving a 15 year sentence for manslaughter. He had killed his childhood best friend.
Once John Ragin was released, Crystal, who by then had joined the Army, was free to marry him. She did, and he became a father figure to the three children she had with her first husband, Mike Burton. Then Crystal and John had a child of their own, I’Kaos.
John Ragin was apparently a very jealous and controlling husband. He insisted on Crystal calling him often. He never wanted her to go out alone. He demanded that she live according to his wishes, which included swearing off eating meat. He was very suspicious of the men Crystal worked with in the Army.
On August 19, 2011, John Ragin had apparently had enough. He brutally murdered his wife and her three older children, Sierra, La’Kwan, and Rasheed, stabbing them 74 times, and setting their home on fire. Then he took I’Kaos and went back to South Carolina, where he was arrested the next day.
Ragin now may face the death penalty and his son is being raised by his maternal relatives in South Carolina. What an awful thing for that family to have to deal with… and what a terrible legacy that little boy now has.
I’m sure Crystal Ragin was a wonderful woman, based on the article written about her. I wonder why she was attracted to John Ragin. I can’t imagine finding a killer attractive, but I realize that these things aren’t always based on logic or common sense. Sometimes people can change… or so they say. I can’t imagine I’d want to have my children around someone who had done time for killing someone, but I know that sometimes there are mitigating circumstances.
I just think it’s very sad that this woman, who had four beautiful children and a promising career, ended up with someone who obviously couldn’t control his rage or impulses. I don’t know what Crystal’s reasons were for choosing to marry John Ragin. It would be easy for me to blame her for being unwise. But really, she just sounds like someone who trusted someone who was ultimately untrustworthy. She and her kids paid the ultimate price for that choice. Her young surviving son will now have to carry on with a father in prison or dead and a mother and siblings who were brutally murdered.
My experiences being Bill’s wife have taught me that people sometimes make very poor choices when it comes to finding mates. Bill made a bad decision to marry his ex wife and he paid a dear price. But at least he’s still alive and healthy.
Reading about this case reminds me of the old story about the scorpion and the frog. A scorpion wants to cross a stream, but doesn’t know how to swim. So he asks the frog to help him. The frog worries about being stung, but the scorpion points out that if he stings the frog, they will both die. So the frog trusts the scorpion and halfway across the stream, gets stung. As the doomed duo start to sing, the frog asks the scorpion why he did it. The frog says, “You knew what I was when you picked me up. It’s nature.”
With some of these people, I have to think that it’s in their nature to be violent and controlling. In some cases, no amount of love and understanding can overcome that. I wish Crystal’s family much peace.
AND the follow up piece… Originally, I had a link to the 911 calls regarding this case. Unfortunately, those were taken down. Listening to those recordings really drove home how dangerous John Ragin was and how Crystal Ragin and her children were completely failed by the Newport News police department.
How the police failed Crystal Ragin and her kids…
A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog post about Crystal Ragin, a soldier at Fort Eustis in Newport News, Virginia who, along with three of her four children, was brutally murdered by her husband, John Moses Ragin on August 19, 2011. The lone survivor was the youngest child, a boy named I’Kaos, Crystal Ragin’s son with John Moses Ragin.
I must admit, what I knew about that case was based on one article I read in the Daily Press, which is the local newspaper for the Newport News area. Though I was born and raised in the Hampton Roads area, I haven’t lived there since 1999. I only occasionally read the news that comes from there, and that article from the Daily Press was the first I had heard of Crystal Ragin. This morning, Ragin’s former sister-in-law contacted me on Facebook and asked me to take another look at the story. So I started reading more about the tragic relationship between Crystal Ragin and John Moses Ragin. What I’ve learned is very disturbing.
In June of 2011, John assaulted Crystal and threw her to the floor. She hit her head on a dresser. The week of the murders, Crystal faced John in court on the assault charge resulting from that attack. A judge found that there was enough evidence to convict John, but for some reason, decided to defer sentencing for two years. This decision was especially strange, since Crystal Ragin met her husband in a South Carolina prison; she was a guard and he was an inmate serving time on a manslaughter charge because he’d shot and killed his best friend in 1991. He was released in 2005 after serving just 14 years. John Ragin already had a history of violence that, somehow, the court didn’t take into account.
After the hearing, Crystal Ragin filed a protective order against John, saying she “feared for her life”. As it turns out, her concerns for her life were entirely valid. However, it took over 24 hours for a Newport News Sheriff’s Department Deputy to attempt to serve John Moses Ragin with the protective order. Between the time the order was granted and a deputy made an initial attempt to serve it, John Moses Ragin stabbed his estranged wife and stepchildren 74 times and then tried to cover up the crime by setting their apartment on fire.
By the time the deputy had arrived at the apartment to serve the papers, it was already a devastating crime scene. This makes me wonder, too, how was it that the deputy didn’t already know about what had happened? Don’t the police agencies communicate with each other? Or was it the deputy who initially discovered the crime scene? Given that there was a fire involved, I wonder why no one called the authorities until after the fire was out. Didn’t the other residents at the apartment complex notice the fire?
Crystal Ragin called 911 on August 18, 2011, while she was at a Shell gas station with the kids. John Moses Ragin confronted her and wouldn’t let her leave. According to a Daily Press article, John Ragin was confronting Crystal because he wanted his son, I’Kaos. He planned to take the boy to South Carolina and was blocking Crystal from her truck because she wouldn’t let him have their son.
Crystal told the 911 operator that there was a pending order of protection she had filed that hadn’t been served. In the background, you can hear John Ragin repeatedly telling Crystal to “stop lying”. He sounds very menacing, yet Crystal is very calm as she speaks to the 911 operator. She sounds like a well trained soldier, keeping cool in a crisis. I think if I had been in her shoes, I would have been hysterical. I can’t imagine how very terrified she and the kids must have been.
Though Crystal Ragin had a protective order pending against John Moses Ragin, when a police officer arrived at the scene where he had been threatening her, they let him go. The second call is from maintenance supervisor Johnny Kennedy. He’s calling about the apartment that the Ragins shared, which looked like it had been on fire. Mr. Kennedy could see a body and was calling to report his findings.
Officer E. Jenkins of the Newport News Police Department was one of the police officers who came to the gas station after Crystal made her 911 call. Officer Jenkins describes Crystal Ragin as obviously scared and “shaking”. He called a dispatcher in an attempt to find the protective order that had not yet been served. Somehow, despite looking for 35-40 minutes, the dispatcher was unable to find the pending protective order. John Ragin claimed he knew nothing about it and, in fact, he said he and Crystal had had sexual intercourse the night before.
Crystal denied having sex with John Moses Ragin and claimed that he was “crazy.” The police officer offered to escort John Ragin to the apartment so he could pick up his belongings. Somehow, that didn’t happen and Ragin was able to get to Crystal and her kids, where he violently ended their lives.
I read an article from May 2012 about how angry Crystal Ragin’s family is about how the protective order was handled. Apparently, because the protective order was signed late in the afternoon, the police department’s policy was to wait until the next day to attempt to serve it. Ragin’s family asserts that the Newport News Sheriff’s Department’s tardiness may have played a direct role in the murders. I don’t have any direct experience with Newport News police; I’ve never even gotten a speeding ticket in Newport News. But if it takes them 24 hours to act on a protective order, I have to wonder how much good the order would have done in this case… or any other case, for that matter.
Though it’s terrible enough that John Moses Ragin killed four people, it’s even worse that they really suffered before they died. Crystal Ragin was stabbed 18 times. According to Commonwealth’s Attorney Howard Gwynn, one of the stab wounds went through Ragin’s face, “from one side to the other”. Crystal Ragin’s daughter, Sierra, was burned so severely that her lips “curled back from her teeth”. Sons La’Kwan and Rasheed were repeatedly stabbed. Their deaths were not instant. The medical examiner who testified in this case described the conditions that led to their deaths, noting that there were stab wounds in their heads, necks, and torsos. Some of the wounds were so deep that they actually went through the bodies. Rasheed was only six years old and weighed just 40 pounds, yet he had 27 stab wounds.
John Moses Ragin was charged and convicted with three counts of capital murder in the deaths of the children. In the death of Crystal Ragin, he was charged and convicted of second degree murder. He was also charged and convicted of felony arson and unlawful stabbing. Though the death penalty was considered in this case, shockingly enough, Ragin was sentenced to three life sentences in the deaths of the children, 40 years for the death of his wife, a life sentence for arson, and five years for each count of unlawful stabbing. The jury was unable to come to a unanimous decision to sentence Ragin to death, so he will spend the rest of his life in prison.
I am no fan of the death penalty, though I stop short of saying that it’s never appropriate. I have no idea why the jury wasn’t able to come to a unanimous decision for death in this case. John Moses Ragin is obviously an extremely violent and dangerous man and it’s very clear that he’s guilty as charged. Moreover, Crystal Ragin’s family was hoping he would get the death penalty and clearly made their wishes known to the court. Yet there were people on the jury who did not feel the death penalty was appropriate, so by law, the judge had to sentence Ragin to life in prison.
Perhaps the people of Virginia can take some comfort in knowing that John Moses Ragin will never be a free man again. He’ll likely eventually end up at a supermax prison in Virginia’s coal mining country. Though things may have improved there since 1999, it’s my guess that Ragin’s time won’t be easy if he ends up going to either Red Onion or Wallen’s Ridge prisons. Given Ragin’s propensity toward violence, it won’t surprise me if he winds up in Wise, Virginia with the worst of the worst, like Lee Boyd Malvo, one of the D.C. snipers.
In the wake of this case, the Newport News Sheriff’s Department now serves protective orders at night.
As for Crystal Ragin’s family, there have already been more casualties related to this case. According to Crystal’s former sister-in-law, two family members have already died with broken hearts. The family has known no peace since the terrible day they lost Crystal Ragin and her three oldest children.